If there is anything I’ve learned over my 30 years of life,
especially these last 2 years, is that I do not understand girls, and girls do
not understand guys.
but as different as billy, ben & i are- we can all agree on what is a date, even though the girls will all vehemently disagree…
Here is the first thing
If a guy calls you up and asks you for dinner or a drink –
it’s a date! Nothing around it. If he calls you on the phone, he is thinking it
is a date. If it is a group invitation, or over email or “hey I’m in the
neighborhood” then it is different. But if he calls you up, he is thinking it
is a date.
Now, a date, doesn’t mean he wants to marry you, or that he
even wants to be in a relationship with you. A date and dating are totally
different. But if he asks you on a date (Even if he doesn’t say the word date),
there is some sort of interest there. He thinks you are fun or cute or something at
least. He may not want another date after the first one.
So, if a guy asks you out for coffee, that doesn’t mean you
have to be ready to marry him, or even know how you feel about him. He probably doesn’t know how he is feeling about you. But if you
know you have ABSOLUTELY no interest, then don’t string him along either.
I get so confused, because it seems like when a guy doesn’t
really express much interest, girls think it is much more. And when I can does (i don’t know what i was writing here, but i have to leave this sentance in, i can does…)
express interest, girls have no clue the guy likes her. But guys can always
Although, I guess this could just be Christian girls…
I asked a couple of my friends, what they would think if I
called up a girl and said hey I would like to take you out for coffee. They
replied “it’s a date” When I told them that some people don’t think of it as a
date unless I say the word date, the girl responded with
“NO Wonder you guys are all messed up!!!”
i could go on and talk about how much sports means to a guy and that is not so frivilous or how we can poke fun at each other and that can be encouraging, or how wrestling and beating each other is a form of the pyhsical touch love language, but i don’t think the ladies will ever understand…
Here’s hoping i get a date this summer!