“I think everything is going to be ok.”
“What makes you think that?”
“Joe… who knows where thoughts come from, they just appear.”
Where do feelings come from?
In particular how we feel about people.
So, i wrote this post a few weeks ago after talking with a friend, and it may be contrdiction to some other blogs i have wrote recently, but maybe not…).
In either romantic relationships or friendships, i think weoften talk about “clicking” with someone. But do feelings make you lovesomeone… or does loving someone generate feelings?
I’m sure there are people we have things in common with. Andthere are qualities we admire and/or enjoy in certain people, but my theory isthe more we love someone, the more we feel for them.
That is the more we give of our self to someone, the more wewill want to give to that person. The more we invest into a person, the more wewill feel. The more we allow our self to feel, the more we will.
Feelings certainly can be manipulated… and i’m not sure ifthat is a bad thing.
We are called to love people. No matter who it is. Love is achoice.
But not only that, i believe when we choose to love, it willbecome easier to love. When we commit ourselves to someone, our love for thatperson will grow. Feelings for another person come after we give ourself to theperson, not before.
How do you feel about that?