Well, it is valentine’s day, so let me write about this, that we talked about brielfy yesterday…
(This book by the way seems very helpful, and just about every guy here has read part or all of it).
Apparently girls have 2 ladders, guys have one. Girls have a friendship ladder and a dating ladder. Guys have one: a dating ladder.
Apparently girls put a guy on one of these ladders from the get-go. A guy only has one intention- well… any girl he interacts with he may consider dating.
It’s true. even the girls i say i would never date- still cross my mind. And i am likely to spend more time with girls i think i would be more likely to date…
As for me, i get stuck on the friendship ladder all the time – and i have no idea how to jump ladders.
My conclusion, i need to be a jerk to girls from the get-go.
It is similar to what Char and i used to talk about. There is a safe guy, dangerous, and mysterious. Mysterious is the best.
When i worked at McDonalds in highschool gave me this theory hang out with cool people and say hi to all the good-looking girls. It sounds bad, but i think i ahve adopted this strategy. i spend time with the guys i think are fun and deep. i probably need to stop being friends with girls, and start just saying hi…
In honor of Brent, a day after his birthday… “becoming all things to all women that i may date some”