It is easy to read a passage of Scripture and even memorize it, than it is to live it out. It is easy to see that it is good and right, than it is to apply it and make the necessary sacrifices. At times, I may be able to do it- but it is commanded because the right thing, the good thing – is often hard to do. We may judge others and condemn others, but we must be careful because we ourselves are prone to fall, prone to fail, prone to sin.
Philippians 2 are nice verses, one I want my kids to know and do. They speak of the beauty of Christianity – but we can’t do it. We fail so often. It makes sense- look at the example of Christ. Consider what Christ has done for you. Jesus gave His life for you and forgave you and was patient with you – so be patient with others and serve others- that is a life worthy of Christ.
Look. Following Jesus is where true joy & happiness lie- so follow Him and be like Him.
He emptied Himself and served others. He was obediient to the point of death – even death on the cross- you are not going that far.
Yet, even for Christ this was painful. Sure there was joy in obeying His father, in knowing there was greater purpose, in His love for others. But you can also see His frustration, hear His annoyance with His words and see His prayers He makes. For Him to love is easy because it is in His nature but it is hard as well because and love and sacrifice and serving by nature involve pain.
I want to love my wife and kids and even other people well. And I also need to take care of myself.
Philippians never suggests neglecting yourself. But it also challenges self-centeredness. Self-care often becomes self-centeredness. Boundaries can become an excuse to be selfish.
Let each of you look not only to his own interests but also the interests of others.
I naturally will think of my own interests- but i need to be intentional about considering the needs of others.
And so, before this he says
Do nothing from selfish ambition but in humility consider others more significant than yourselves.
I need to be humble, not think myself king but a servant
Which was the mind of Christ.
Have this mind- which is Christ’s – taking the form of a servant.
There is an attitude i need to adopt. I need consider my attitude.
Am I willing to grow? Am i willing to submit my desires? Am i willing to sacrifice?
I want to, but I am weak.
I cannot do this on my own strength – i am not Christ!
But I want to experience the joy of the Lord, I want to live a life worthy of the Gospel. I want to honor God. So, help me God!
Your commands are too hard for me.
Your example is a weight i cannnot hold.
Work with me, walk aside me and help me, yoke me with You, that i may walk the path You have set up for me.
Be patient with me and gracious, but help me also, that i may reflect You and honor You an serve others and help them.
Let them experience joy and peace- and me too.
I want to have good days.
I want to have rest and ease and peace and comfort
But serving others all day long leaves me tired.
Trusting You to provide – You prove faithful, but it can be agonizing and trying
Why does our house not sell?
Why do my feet always hurt?
Why does my wife complain against me?
I consider the needs of others, will not anyone consider my needs?
Alas Lord, the command is not given so other do this for me- perhaps this is the ideal- if i consider others better than me and they consider me better than them then we help each other- but it doesn’t always work that way.
I can consider the needs of others, because You consider my needs.
You take care of me
You provide for me
You help me
You encourage me
You comfort me
You save me.
You love me.
I am terrible at loving others- perhaps i need to experience and know Your love more.
I need to remind myself of your love
I need to meditate on your love
But i also need You to show me Your love, give me Your love, remind me of your love- because i am weak. Help me God.